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Ahead of Father’s Day (Sunday 3rd September), we’ll be sharing stories of Christian fathers and how the gospel shapes their parenting. In the first of the series, Nathan Luk opens up about the joys of parenting a newborn, facing new temptations to ‘over-provide’ and make financial security an idol, and how knowing God the Father brings ultimate peace and comfort in the unknowns of parenting. He also shares the gospel convictions that have encouraged his family to persevere in prioritising God and His people as new parents. We hope you are encouraged by this story.  

Tell us a bit about yourself!

My name is Nathan and I’m married to my lovely wife Jess. We have a little 3-month old bundle of joy named Ezra. We attend Cheil English Ministry and during the week I work as a software engineer. These days I don’t have too much time for hobbies but when I do, I love listening to podcasts, and a little bit of gaming too. I’m passionate about demonstrating, teaching and equipping men to live for Jesus especially as they think through university, full-time work and marriage. 

What have been the joys and challenges of being a new father so far? 

The simple privilege of being able to witness and partake in God’s plan for Ezra has been an absolute joy. As someone who tends not to get emotional or sentimental in day-to-day things, I often find myself looking at Ezra, him smiling back at me, and then catching myself revelling in the unfathomable truth that God created this child and then would graciously bestow Jess and I the responsibility of raising him.  

In terms of challenges, apart from physical tiredness that comes with raising a newborn, one of my challenges has been the increased temptation to need to provide (or ‘over-provide’ in most cases) for my family which in-turn leads to the idolisation of money, security and comfortability. Especially in a time of escalating living costs, it can be tempting to invest my time, money and energy into what will bring financial security. It can be easy to spend less time with my church community, less time in God’s Word and less time in prayer, in favour of more time at work or doing things that might put us in a better financial situation. 

However, God’s Word reminds me time and time again that it’s both futile and foolish to be caught up on these things. Both Matthew 6:19-21 and Colossians 3:1-2 remind me to set my heart on eternal things and to frequently check-in with my heart and examine what is ultimately occupying it. I’m reminded that the throne room of my heart needs to have Christ sitting there, not my family or myself. 

The throne room of my heart needs to have Christ sitting there, not my family or myself. 

How does knowing God the Father shape the way you parent Ezra? 

Understanding God the Father puts into perspective my role as his earthly father. While he is biologically my son, I am profoundly aware that my role is that of an ambassador for Christ in his life. Ezra belongs to God – he is ultimately God’s son, entrusted to Jess and me for only a season. 

As a parent to a newborn, we get to control many things. From when he baths, to when he feeds, to when he gets to play. However, it’s humbling to know that the only thing that really matters, his eternity, is one thing that I have absolutely no control over. At times, that brings anxiety and uncertainty, but ultimately, it’s a great relief and joy knowing that God in his absolute sovereignty and wisdom has His own plan for Ezra and is not only my heavenly and eternal Father, but also his. 

To no surprise, being a father myself has revealed countless shortcomings of my own. From being impatient when he doesn’t want to sleep to getting frustrated because he’s just done his fourth poo in as many minutes, I’m so relieved that I was never meant to be Ezra’s saviour. My role as his earthly father isn’t to meet his every need and to help him be the most successful person he can be. My primary objective is to point Ezra towards Jesus. In the short time I’ve been a father, I’ve come to realise that my most meaningful contribution I can give to my son is to facilitate his relationship with Christ, rather than impose my desires upon him (as hard as that can be at times). 

Our most fervent prayer is that God reveals Himself to Ezra in a personal and transformative way. While we play a part in his upbringing, Jess and I are merely conduits through which Ezra can encounter the love and mercy of his Saviour Jesus. As such, understanding God the Father allows me to approach parenting with a humble reliance on His wisdom, understanding that He is the ultimate guide and protector for Ezra’s life, not me. 

I’m so relieved that I was never meant to be Ezra’s saviour. My role as his earthly father isn’t to meet his every need and to help him be the most successful person he can be. My primary objective is to point Ezra towards Jesus.

What gospel convictions have inspired you and Jess to not give up on meeting with and serving the local church, despite having your hands full with parenting a young child? 

The gospel convictions that have inspired Jess and me to remain steadfast in our commitment to our church, even amidst the demands of parenting, are rooted in our understanding of the profound privilege and responsibility that comes with raising a child. Having Ezra is a gift from God and with this gift comes an opportunity to model for other young couples or those considering parenthood that serving the church and raising a family are not mutually exclusive pursuits. 

While Ezra might be too young to comprehend the intricacies, we believe it’s crucial to demonstrate that faith in Jesus isn’t something that takes a back seat when life gets busy. This lesson extends to our own lives as well – the temptation to prioritise other matters over our relationship with Christ is real, but we are committed to living a life that reflects that Jesus remains at the forefront, no matter the circumstances. 

Reflecting on Philippians 2:3-4, which urges us to consider others before ourselves and to look out for their interests, we’re reminded that our involvement in the church isn’t just about us. It’s about contributing to the community, supporting fellow believers, and demonstrating the selflessness that the gospel calls us to embody.  

Similarly, Galatians 6:9-10 encourages us not to grow weary in doing good, and that “as we have opportunity” (v10) we should be doing good especially in our church community. Indeed, what a blessed opportunity that Jess and I have been given to serve our church through our family. 

While Ezra might be too young to comprehend the intricacies [of attending church], we believe it’s crucial to demonstrate that faith in Jesus isn’t something that takes a back seat when life gets busy.

How have you seen God at work in your family, as a result of your perseverance to continue meeting with your church family? 

The concept of family unity has taken on a whole new dimension for us. Our shared experiences of worship, service, and growing in faith within our church community have woven a tighter bond between Jess, Ezra, and myself. Each time we come together to lift our voices in worship, serve side by side with our brothers and sisters, or do bible study together, we’re reminded of the importance of being united in purpose as a family, grounded in Christ and His finished work on the cross. 

The support we’ve received from our church family has been an incredible testament to not only God’s grace to us but also the importance of community. In moments of challenge and triumph alike, we’ve felt God’s presence through our brothers and sisters – whether it’s offering words of encouragement, lending helping hands, and interceding for us through prayer. 

I’d be lying if I said that my church commitments have only grown since becoming a father. If anything, it’s one of the areas that I often catch myself being disappointed about. I often feel ‘ineffective’ for Christ and the church because of the time and energy it takes in raising a family. However, despite my weakness and perceived inability in this season of life, I’m constantly in awe of how God would use a tired and often grumpy sinner like me to actually encourage and strengthen the body of Christ. It’s a concept that is so counterintuitive yet is a perfect testimony to the power and transformative grace of God.  

I thank God that although I may not know what lies ahead or what hurdles there may be, He will be there with my family, guiding us every step of the way with not what we want but with what we need. May He stir within us a profound zeal, cultivating a heart of contentment in the sole shepherd who leads us to our eternal home, Christ Jesus. 

Despite my weakness and perceived inability in this season of life, I’m constantly in awe of how God would use a tired and often grumpy sinner like me to actually encourage and strengthen the body of Christ.

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On the Value and Cost of Raising Sons who Love Jesus: Carlos Aguilera 

Carlos shares the incredible value and cost of raising sons who love Jesus, both as a father and mentor to younger men. He shares how knowing God shapes his parenting decisions and as well as the lessons he’s learned from older male mentors. Read it here.

On Fathering with Grace, Authenticity and Loving Discipline: Simon Kim 

Simon Kim shares how becoming a father has magnified his understanding of God the Father’s love for sinners, and that moments of discipline are “gospel opportunities” to model God’s love—something he learned from his own Christian father. Read it here.

On Losing and Missing a Child this Father’s Day: Brendan Samuels

Brendan shares a father’s perspective on infertility, IVF, and the grief of losing three children. He also shares how he has found peace in God in grief, and tips on how we can love Dads who have lost a child this Father’s Day. Read it here.

BASECAMP will be an unmissable event for men to strengthen their faith in the company of like-minded brothers. This year, guest speakers Alasdair Groves and Peter Sondergeld will teach on the topic “Unravelling Emotions”. Here are 5 ways to prepare for the conference this month:

1. Tune your heart for worship with the BASECAMP Spotify playlist 
  
Familiarise yourself with the BASECAMP song list by following our Spotify playlist here. Whether you’re looking for a playlist for relaxing, study or the commute to work, the BASECAMP playlist is filled with hymns that will tune your heart for worship. 

2. Assemble in style with BASECAMP winter merch 
  
We have a fresh drop of BASECAMP winter merch including a long sleeve tee, long sleeve polo, socks, beanie and cap. All our apparel us ethically-produced, and helps to keep our ministry going! You can purchase this merch at our in-person events, or online on Friday 11 August from our website. 

3. Pray for BASECAMP 

Please join us in praying for BASECAMP men’s conference! 

• Pray that God will speak powerfully through our speakers, Alasdair and Peter, and that their content will renew minds and transform hearts.  
• Pray for God’s will to be done in our delegates, and that they will hear His word with open ears, minds and hearts.  
• Pray for event logistics and AV and that everything will run smoothly on the day. 
• Pray for our unbelieving friends, that they will hear and respond positively to God’s word being preached. 
• Pray that men’s ministry in local churches will be strengthened because of BASECAMP 2023.  

4. Download the KCC One App to access content after BASECAMP  
  
Download the KCC One App to access BASECAMP related content before, during and after the conference, including talks from BASECAMP 2022! KCC One is filled with free and KCC+ subscriber-only resources that will strengthen and encourage your faith for years to come.  

5. Grab your last-minute tickets!  

Don’t get stuck at home with FOMO! There’s still time for you and your friends to join us for a fantastic day of powerful preaching and fellowship with your brothers. Last minute tickets are still available for our in-person event at BASECAMP Mountains (11-12 August 2023) or Online (livestream and on-demand) which will be available for one month afterwards. Register now.  

“The question that one should ask themselves is: would God be love if He wasn’t holy?” 

In this talk, Jackie Hill Perry teaches on the holiness of God, its significance as God’s defining characteristic, and why we should appreciate and understand it as believers.  

This sermon is part of the “Winter Wisdom” July collection, which is now available for KCC One+ subscribers. Access this talk and much more from only $4.99 / month (on an annual KCC One+ subscription). Subscribe today. 

Transcript:

One quote that has always stuck with me is a quote by A.W. Tozer that says, “What comes into your mind when you think about God is the most important thing about you.” And I don’t think we think like that all that much, when we should. Because in all the craziness of the world and in all the craziness that’s within ourselves, I really do believe that it is symptomatic of what we believe about God.  

The world has a lot of definitions for God. To some He is the universe. For others, He is only the Father. and not also the Son and Spirit. That’s a big deal because if we choose to believe how the world finds God, then we won’t leave any room for God to define Himself. We will let our circumstances and our friends and our passions and Tik-Tok tell us what to believe. And if their assessments aren’t true, then their definitions are demonic. So, we’ll be out here convinced that we have discovered truths, convinced that we have found some new intellectual way of embracing the unknown, when really all you’ve done is believe the devil.  

So, my plan tonight is to cut through all the noise, to cut through all the deception, and allow God to speak for Himself as explained in His Word, as revealed in His Son, and as illuminated by the Holy Spirit. The Bible truly does have a whole lot to tell us about God. He is Creator. He is king. He is sovereign. He is Lord and God. But if there’s one thing that we need to know, it’s that God is holy. If that doesn’t come into your mind when you think about God, then it should.  

Turn in your Bibles to Isaiah chapter 6. I’ll wait for you digitally. Starting at verse 1 it says: 

“In the year that King Uzziah died, I saw the Lord sitting upon a throne, high and lifted up, and the train of His robe filled the temple. Above Him stood the Seraphim. Each had 6 wings, with 2 they covered their faces, with 2 they covered their feet, and with 2 they flew. One called to another and said, ‘Holy, holy, holy is the Lord of hosts. The whole earth is full of His glory.’ The foundations of the thresholds shook at the voice of him who called, and the house was filled with smoke. I said, ‘Woe is me! For I am lost, for I am a man of unclean lips, and I dwell in the midst of a people of unclean lips, and my eyes have seen the King, the Lord of hosts.’ Then one of the Seraphim flew to me, having in his hand a burning coal that he had taken with tongs from the altar, and he touched my mouth and said, ‘Behold, this has touched your lips. Your guilt is taken away and your sin atones for.'” 

The prophet Isaiah saw the Lord on the throne, and he heard the Seraphim singing something doctrinal about the nature of God to one another. They praise God by saying what is true about Him to one another. They said, “Holy, holy, holy is the Lord of hosts.” If the Seraphim were somehow replaced by people within our current cultural context, I think the lyrics to their song might be different. I have a feeling that if we gave somebody the supernatural ability to leave earth for heaven to stand at the throne, and we told them, “Hey, sing an attribute about God,” that they’d open up their mouths and out of it would come, “Love, love, love is the Lord of hosts. The whole Earth is full of His glory.” And if they did that, they wouldn’t be lying.  

Surely God is love, for He said so himself. But the question that one should ask themselves is: would God be love if He wasn’t holy? I mean, without an unalterable righteousness that keeps God from anything arrogant, anything abusive, anything self-centred, anything self-protecting and self-serving – if there was no moral purity in God, would He be able to love at all? It is actually because God is holy that He is also kind, also humble, also honest, also faithful, a.k.a: loving. You can see then, why when the Seraphim have the chance to say something about God, it’s that He’s holy. 

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We are pleased to announce that Professor Miroslav Volf will be speaking at Oxygen conference as a special guest. Returning this August, Oxygen exists to serve anyone in Christian ministry—to refresh them in their zeal for God and the work that He has called them to do. 

This year, Oxygen will return as a 4-day conference retreat in the beautiful Blue Mountains. Through bible talks, practical workshops and rich fellowship in a quiet and focused space, delegates will be invited to check their hearts and spiritual health for ministry.   

Professor Volf is the Henry B. Wright Professor of Theology and Yale Divinity School and founding Director of the Yale Center for Faith and Culture. His most recent books are Life Worth Living: A Guide to What Matters Most and The Home of God: A Brief Story of Everything. His earlier works include Otherness, and Reconciliation (1996), a winner of the 2002 Grawemeyer Award; After Our Likeness: The Church as the Image of the Trinity (1998), winner of the Christianity Today book award, and Free of Charge: Giving and Forgiving in a Culture Stripped of Grace (2006), which was the Archbishop of Canterbury Lenten book for 2006. 

Alongside international evangelists John Lennox and Glen Scrivener, Miroslav will be joining us virtually, in a live-cross interview, for one of our evening segments titled ‘The Non-Negotiables of Christian Ministry’. All delegates will receive free digital access to Miroslav’s resource, ‘Why Did God Create the World?’ 

Get a taste of his teaching here:  

Sermon: Loving for No Reason

In this talk, Miroslav Volf explores the topic of ‘Loving For No Reason’ from the passage Job 1:1-12. He answers the popular questions: Did Job wrong God? Did God wrong Job? Or is there a third option?  

Interview: Good, Evil, Suffering, and Silence 

In this interview, Miroslav Volf and CCT Director Evan Rosa discuss the nature of the good life in light of the experience of suffering. Suffering is examined through the lenses of agency, intellectual comprehension, and prayer. Miroslav discusses how experiences of suffering can lead to disorientation in all these categories, and he offers Christians a few ways to move forward in the face of this reality.

Consider Forgiveness 

In this talk, Miroslav explains the biblical definition of forgiveness and what has motivated his family to forgive people who have caused them harm.  

At Oxygen, you will be invited to invest in the crux of what drives you in ministry: your love for Christ. Join us this August to be revitalised by God’s Word and invigorated for the gospel work He has called you to do.  

Paul Tripp and Zack Eswine will be teaching from the Bible and joined by special guests John Lennox, Glen Scrivener, Miroslav Volf, Sarah Irving-Stonebraker, Kirk Patston, Anna Powell, Mal Gill, and Jonathan Dykes. 

Along with our MCs Eleasa Sieh and L-T Hopper, and our fantastic line-up of workshop speakers, every part of the program has been carefully planned to expand perspective, offer guidance, and real, relevant experience to help enrich and strengthen you and your ministry. 

Don’t miss this rare opportunity to be with like-minded people in ministry in all its forms, and to sit under teaching, encouragement and fellowship that is tailored just for you.  

In-person, day and online tickets are now available. Register today.