On the Value of Raising Kids in a Church Family: Andrew

In this interview, Andrew shares both the deep joys and everyday struggles of fathering two young girls. He shares his desire to be fully present for his girls, while grieving not being able to do so as the provider for his family. He opens up about how fatherhood has acted as a “mirror” to his selfishness, impatience, and longings for spontaneity and freedom, and how God has used these moments to grow and strengthen his faith. Finally, he shares the value of raising his girls in a church community—something he learned being exposed to Christianity and a church family early in life.  

Photo: The L’estrelle family
  1. Please introduce yourself! 

Hi, my name is Andrew L’Estrelle, I’m 32, married to my beautiful wife Addie and together we have two girls – Emily who is 5 and Ellanor who is almost 2. We’re members at Providence Church Brisbane, having started as part of the launch team when the church was planted in 2015.  

During the week I work for the Queensland Government and hobbies these days mostly revolve around the kids or various building and improvement projects around the house. I like gardening, making/building things, and pursuing simple creative outlets like cooking. When I get the time, I really enjoy going out to the country where I grew up, spending time in nature, and enjoying the tranquility of standing on a remote hill with no civilisation in sight.  

2. What has been the greatest joy and challenge of being a Girl Dad so far?  

The greatest joy I have found in parenting has been watching my girls grow and learn. Their sense of adventure and eagerness to explore the world, asking questions about how things work and why. Watching them achieve things they couldn’t do yesterday whether it be helping Emily learn to read or seeing the joy on Ella’s face when she finally masters jumping with both feet at the same time.  

Growing into this role of ‘Dad’ has also been incredibly challenging, realising how selfish I am with my own time and desiring a level of spontaneity, freedom and independence that isn’t compatible with giving yourself up to be available and present for your kids. Working full-time and having to spend a significant portion of my week away from the kids has also been, and continues to be, a challenge for me. Switching off from work and trying to be as present as possible at the end of a long day is difficult, but as Ella runs toward me, with arms in the air screaming “DADDDAA” work quickly fades away. It’s in the little chats as I put them to bed and we try and catch up on the day that I find little moments of joy, for example, as Emily asks to pray together, and we read her bible together each night.   

Growing into this role of ‘Dad’ has also been incredibly challenging, realising how selfish I am with my own time and desiring a level of spontaneity, freedom and independence that isn’t compatible with giving yourself up to be available and present for your kids.

3. You grew up in a Christian household and attending church and have remained in the faith into adulthood. How has your early exposure to Christianity shaped the way you parent your girls today?  

I grew up in a Christian home and had the benefit of learning from and observing several solid, mature Christians as I grew up. I’m very grateful for the early exposure I had to Christianity, being in an environment where I was taught the bible and seeing Sunday church be prioritised and valued. This all provided a solid base for me to develop my knowledge of God and develop my own faith.  

I have seen lots of men who are dedicated to their church and their families, and one common observation I have is that they were all present and committed, with church and family being clear priorities in their life. This has helped me tackle my own big decisions in life like where to buy a house and live, where to work, the type of lifestyle we seek and seeking to have church and community as a central priority of our week, seeking opportunity’s to open our home and serve people to model to our girls that our faith and our church family are central priorities that guide our decision making, not an afterthought that we fit into our otherwise secular lives.  

Growing up in a Christian home has taught me the importance of providing an environment and space for my girls to learn and encounter authentic gospel community to allow them to develop their own faith in time. In 2021, I took 18 months long-term leave from work, and we sold our house and packed up all our things to build our own tiny home on wheels and travel the country together.  

We loved our time away but returned to Brisbane to provide our girls a gospel-based church to grow up in—something I believe is so important in supporting my kids as they explore the gospel for themselves at a young age. We love our church community and I’m enjoying this phase of parenting particularly as our eldest Emily has started asking more questions about the bible and faith. 

Growing up in a Christian home has taught me the importance of providing an environment and space for my girls to learn and encounter authentic gospel community to allow them to develop their own faith in time.

4. How does knowing God, the perfect Father, shape the way you parent your girls?  How has God used fatherhood to grow and sanctify you?  

The majority of the challenges I have faced in parenthood stem from my own selfishness and lack of patience, however I am coming to see joy in the mirror that parenthood holds up to our own lives as it presents opportunities for me to grow and mature in my own walk with God.  

When faced with a child who ignores my first, second and 58th reasonable request to put their socks on (insert daily struggle here), rather than being discouraged and frustrated I am reminded to stop and act out of love and patience as I hear God calling out to me with grace and love, patiently waiting for me to respond to his reasonable request to love and follow him.  

I have by no means mastered this yet, and God continues to work in my heart to grow me and to shape me as his son and as a father. I am thankful for the kids he has blessed me with, and the privilege it is to raise these two girls, and I pray that I can point them toward God’s grace and love through my parenting as they grow up and we face new and unchartered challenges together. 

Andrew opens up about how the challenge of fatherhood has grown his faith, and the value of raising children in a gospel-based church community.

By Heidi Tai

On Learning Love & Patience as a Girl Dad: Chester 

In this interview, Chester shares the joys and challenges of being a ‘Girl Dad’ and how God has used his daughters to grow him in love, patience, and prayerfulness. Having grown up in a non-Christian home, Chester also shares how knowing God the Father has influenced his parenting decisions and spiritual disciplines as a family.

Photo: Chester with his wife and girls
  1. Please introduce yourself!  

    My name is Chester Wong, and I’ve been married to Ka for 19 years. We have two daughters: Ava, who’s 15 (yes, I’m in the teenage stage), and Jemma, who’s 11. We attend Auburn Anglican Church, a great place for our girls to see that God’s Kingdom is wonderfully diverse, with people from all over the world—perfect for a city like Sydney. 

    When I’m not ‘babysitting’ the kids (though they’ll tell you they’re too old for that), you can find me in lycra; cycling around Sydney or glued to the TV watching Formula 1. As our girls get older and more independent, they might not need us for every little thing, but that doesn’t mean they don’t need us. Sometimes, just being there—like now, as I’m sitting on Ava’s bed while she studies for exams—makes all the difference. 

    2. What has been the greatest joy and challenge of being a ‘Girl Dad’? 

    Being a ‘Girl Dad’ has been a crash course in hair conditioner, hair dryers, and mastering the art of JoJo Siwa bows. One of the biggest challenges? Learning how to do plaits—let’s just say I’m still in training. I’ve also had to figure out how to be gentle and soft. Growing up with a brother, we were always roughhousing, but with my girls, I’ve had to learn to use loving and encouraging words, and to keep my voice down. The joys? They love cuddles, and they’re always up for teaching me the latest TikTok moves.

    3. How has coming to know God, the perfect Father, influenced the way you father your girls? 
     
    Growing up in a non-Christian home, I’ve had to rely heavily on prayer and to seek wisdom and guidance from other godly fathers to help me keep Jesus at the center of our family. God has really shaped my character, especially my temper. Early in my fatherhood, I noticed I was quick-tempered, much like my own dad. But as I look to Christ, I’ve been reminded that this isn’t the way to raise my girls in a loving and patient manner. 

    4. How has God used fatherhood to grow and sanctify you? 
     
    Fatherhood humbles me every day as I constantly question whether I’m doing enough to nurture my daughters in Christ and provide for their needs. I keep coming back to the truth that it’s God who ultimately shapes their hearts. Our hope is that they will genuinely love Christ and choose to follow Him.  

    5. What is one piece of advice that you would give to new Dads this Father’s Day? 

    Pray for your children often and pray with them every night. Before I tuck my girls in bed, even my 15-year-old, we read the Bible and pray together. This is our nightly anchor—a time to stay rooted in God’s word and prayer as a discipline. It’s also a wonderful opportunity to chat, play random games, and share a laugh. 

      Chester shares the joys and challenges of being a ‘Girl Dad’ and how God has used his daughters to grow him in love, patience, and prayerfulness.

      By Heidi Tai

      On the Joy & Grief of “Letting Go” of Adult Children: Eugene

      Ahead of Father’s Day (Sunday 1st September), we’ll be sharing stories of everyday Christian fathers and how the gospel shapes their parenting. In this interview, Eugene Hor shares the joys and challenges of 24 years of fatherhood and celebrates how God has remained faithful to his children into adulthood. He also shares the difficulty of “letting go” of his adult children and how older fathers can continue to serve, lead and glorify God in their families.  

      Photo: Eugene with his family members Ashleigh, Pauline and Joshua.
      1. Please introduce yourself! 

      I’m Eugene and I’ve been married to Pauline for 29 years. We’ve got two young adult children. My daughter Ashleigh’s 22 and my son Joshua’s 24. I’m currently the pastor at GracePoint Presbyterian Church in Sydney, a church we planted in 1999.  

      I’m not sure if I have hobbies. Pauline always says I have many interests that come and go, from archery to model cars to remote control cars to smoking meat to crossfit. The list is endless. My current interest right now is growing superhot chili peppers and making superhot sauces with my variety of reapers, scorpions and ghost peppers.  

      I’m finding myself in what an older pastor once called our third season in life and ministry. In our first season we’re learners and we’re making all our mistakes. In our second season, we’re practitioners and worked out what to do because we’ve learnt from our mistakes. In our third season we’re teachers trying to work out what we can really pour into and what foundation we can leave behind for the next generation.  

      I think we’re in our third season of life and ministry, and with our son getting married next year and our daughter possibly the year after, we’re trying to work out how we can best serve the gospel in the coming new season.  

      1. What has been your greatest joy and challenge as a father recently?  

      More recently my greatest joy as a father has been seeing both our children speak of GracePoint as their church, a church they love and want to continue serving at. They’ve approached disruption taking place in our church community with a maturity and love that I’ve been incredibly thankful for. That was always a worry for me when they were growing up, as church wasn’t always a place they wanted to be. There were seasons where church was boring, or they didn’t have peers and so didn’t want to go. But if you’re a pastor’s kid it’s not that easy bailing out on Sunday church growing up. I’m thankful it didn’t make them resentful, and I’m thankful that God kept them all these years.  

      I remember on our way to church one Sunday in the car when Joshua, who was in year 8 at the time, said, ‘I don’t want to go to church, it’s boring, it’s not fun.’ I remember using it as a teaching moment, asking him if he wanted to be a boy or a man one day. He said he wanted to be a man, and I remember saying to him that boys only want to have fun, but men do hard things. When things are no longer fun, they bail or run away.  

      Men take responsibility and do what’s good and right, even if it’s hard and boring, like Jesus. Men take responsibility and serve others, even when it’s hard and boring, like Jesus. Men take responsibility and care for others, even when it’s hard and boring, like Jesus. I told him that if all you want to do is have fun, you’ll never grow up to be a man. And church isn’t always going to be easy or fun, but we go because it’s good and right, and we go because we care and want to serve others like Jesus. I don’t know if he fully understood, but when I asked him again if he wanted to be a boy or a man, he said he wanted to be a man. That’s been a real joy for me seeing both our children do hard things when it comes to church and life, in being committed to loving and serving others like Jesus.  

      Church isn’t always going to be easy or fun, but we go because it’s good and right, and we go because we care and want to serve others like Jesus.

      In terms of a challenge as a father, I think it’s challenging to let go as your kids get older. I’m certainly finding that hard. Pauline keeps reminding me that they’re independent young adults who will ask me for help if they need it. I still over-function as a dad and feel the need to do things for them even when help is unsolicited. Ashleigh recently said to me that she is informing me that she is going to Korea later this year for holidays, rather than asking me, as she knows what my response would be if she asked.  

      That’s challenging for me as I still see them as children who need my help and protection. I suspect they do, but not as dependent children, but as independent young adults. It’s challenging for me to make that shift. Part of making that shift is to recognise that I won’t always be able to be there for them as they leave home, but they will always have a heavenly Father who loves them and will care for them much more than I could ever do. I need to entrust them to his providential care and protection, and they need to look to him even more so as young adults. 

      1. How has knowing God the perfect Father shaped the way you fathered your own children?  

      Knowing God as a perfect Father has shaped the way I’ve fathered my children in two ways.  

      Firstly, it’s recognising that I’ll never be a perfect father to my children. I’m not just finite but also flawed and sinful. I might not be the perfect Dad and I can’t always be there for them, but they’ll always have a heavenly Father who’ll be there for them, and who’ll never fail them or disappoint them. So even as a Dad I always want to point them to their heavenly Father, a father who’ll always love them and be there for them. It was my practice all through high school when we dropped them off at school or when they caught the bus, to send them a SMS with a verse from the Psalms or a bible verse to let them know I’d be praying God’s presence, promises or truth for them, reminding them that they were never alone. It was my way of saying, ‘Daddy can’t always be there with you, but your heavenly Father will always be there for you, look to him and trust him.’  

      Secondly, it’s given me a better understanding of what it means to be a father the way God has been a perfect Father to me in two ways. He’s been a perfect Father who has loved me unconditionally and completely in the giving of his Son for me. That’s a reminder to me that I will always be loved even when I’ve failed. He’s also been a perfect Father who has powerfully overcome the one thing that can destroy me forever in the raising up of his Son over death for me. That’s a reminder to me that I’ll always be safe even when life is uncertain.  

      So even as a Dad I always want to communicate those two things to them as children.  

      I wanted them to always know that ‘Daddy will always love you and Daddy is always here for you even when things are hard.’ Practically this meant being physically present and available. Ashleigh certainly knew that and often took advantage of that as she would sometimes call me in the middle of my work meetings, knowing I would always pick up if she called – often to ask me if I could get her Krispy Kreme donuts on the way home. My kids have always grown up knowing that I will always be present and available for them.  

      I might not be the perfect Dad and I can’t always be there for them, but they’ll always have a heavenly Father who’ll be there for them, and who’ll never fail them or disappoint them.

      1. Your children are now young adults. How can fathers of older children continue serving and leading their family for God’s glory?  

      I think as a father to adult children one of the ways we can continue serving and leading our families for God’s glory is to keep modelling to them the grace of the gospel in our lives and inviting them to walk with us the way we’ve walked with them growing up.  

      When they’re small they see it lived out in the way we serve and relate to others. As they grow into adulthood, we should be able to share more with them, and we should be able to invite them to walk with us in our personal challenges and ministry. When the kids were small, we would pray for them and instruct them. While we still pray for them and we give them unsolicited instruction as parents do, we also now share more with them, and we often seek their prayer and counsel in life and ministry. One could say that we need to see our children as partners in the gospel as they grow up. 

      1. God has blessed you with two children who have remained faithful in the Lord. What is one piece of advice that you would give to new dads this Father’s Day?  

      God has been gracious, and I don’t think we’ve done anything special that has led to our children remaining faithful to the Lord. We have, however, been committed to God’s ordinary means of grace for his people.  

      I would say this to any new Dad: Give yourself to regular prayer for yourself and for your children. Open the Bible and regularly read the word to your children. Help them know and understand God’s promises to them in the gospel. Teach and instruct them in living out God’s truth. Make Sunday worship with God’s people a priority as a family. Don’t deny them the sacrament of baptism as they’re children of God’s covenant community. Don’t deny them the promises of the gospel in the sign and seal of baptism. Give yourself to serving God’s people at church and involve them in serving with you.  

      Model for your children what it means to be a father who loves unconditionally and protects, the way your Heavenly Father has been a father to you in Jesus. More than anything else, recognise that you won’t always be a perfect Dad, but your children will always have a heavenly Father who has loved them in Jesus, and who wants to and will always be there for them. Always point them to him. 

      Eugene shares the joy and grief of "letting go" of adult children, and how older Dads can continue to serve, lead and glorify God in their families.

      By Heidi Tai

      On Balancing Work and Parenting as a Toddler Dad: Joshua 

      Ahead of Father’s Day (Sunday 1st September), we’ll be sharing stories of everyday Christian fathers and how the gospel shapes their parenting. In the first of the series, Joshua Fernandez shares the joys and challenges of fathering a high-energy toddler, how he strives to model God’s character as a Christian dad, and learning to balance family duties with work in a male-dominated Trades Industry. We hope you are encouraged by his story!

      Photo: Joshua and his son, Leon.
      1. Hi Josh! Please introduce yourself!  

      My name is Joshua Fernandez, and I am the husband of Katherine and father to Leon. I attend Fellowship Baptist Church in Lalor Park and have been there since I was 6 years old. My trade is a Security Technician, where I provide security and access to commercial and residential buildings through CCTV cameras, automatic doors, FOB access, alarms, etc. My hobbies include exercising, watching anime, playing video games, and throwing my son around the room because he enjoys flying and being upside down.  

      1. What has been your greatest joy and challenge in being a new father so far?  

      The greatest joy and challenge so far in being a new father is the shaping and moulding of the character of my son. It’s the greatest joy seeing Leon grow and learn new things, discovering his likes and dislikes, figuring out the limitations of his current physicality, and trying to understand where his “off” button is because he seems to have endless energy. The challenge is keeping up with his endless energy, keeping calm when he has a tantrum, and trying to feed him when he’s hungry but also doesn’t want to eat at the same time, just to name a few.  

      Finding balance when it comes to providing material things is another challenge. Growing up in an Asian and financially strict household has caused me to just buy the things my son wants (namely Monster Truck and Hot Wheels). It’s my way of making up for the things I missed out on when I was younger. There’s no greater feeling than making your child happy and seeing him fall asleep in the pram, holding a Hot Wheel car. The other side of that coin is also the challenge of making sure Leon understands that life isn’t always going to go the way you want it to. We aren’t going to be happy all the time, and we aren’t always going to get a Hot Wheel every time we ask for one.  

      1. How does knowing God, the perfect Father shape the way you parent your son?  

      My goal as a father, and obligation as a God-fearing man, is to emulate God the Father and his character so that Leon might see God in me. In doing so, I hope he can look to do the same for his life, as he grows to understand God and Christianity.  

      We, as sinners, can’t live to the standards of God all the time but we can continually and daily strive to live as God wants us to live. So, I daily strive to show God’s love, patience, and understanding, so that Leon may grow up knowing and understanding the right way to live, as well as who God is, and His position in my life. By showing my own failings and weaknesses to Leon and helping him understand why Papa still gets mad and makes mistakes, I can put God and His characteristics as the highest and perfect standard for Leon to strive for.  

      1. You work in a male-dominated Trades Industry that isn’t always friendly towards fathers who want to prioritise home duties. Can you share examples of how you have tried to be a witness in this culture?  

      I have been blessed and fortunate to not have experienced too much of this firsthand. There is only one instance where I was guilt tripped into coming back to work right after my son had just been born, but it ended as a non-hostile conversation, and it ended with me going on parental leave 2 weeks earlier than the dates I had applied for. My current co-workers are all about family, so it’s been easy to prioritise home and family before work, without being degraded for it. 

      As a Tradie, I make an effort to continue putting my family first, despite work and the deadlines that come with it. By putting family first, I can show those around me that life is more than just work, but a means God gives to us to provide for our families and to exercise creativity, practicality and problem solving outside of family. 

      1. If you could share one piece of advice to new fathers this Father’s Day what would it be?  

      The one piece of advice I can share would be to be more proactive within the home, help your wife out where you can and be mindful of how your wife and children are feeling. Doing the little things count. Washing baby bottles, folding laundry, loading and starting the dishwasher, preparing dinner. All these things help even if only a little bit. 

      Don’t get me wrong – you can make time for yourself and your hobbies, but don’t let your time come before your wife and child’s needs. There will be difficult days where it seems like everything you do is for everyone but yourself, but your wife will appreciate all that you do, and your children will see how present their father is.  

      Our duty as fathers isn’t just to physically provide for our families but to provide, sustain, and nurture the mental and spiritual aspects of our families. With God’s grace and strength, we have the ability to do these things and more.  

      Joshua shares the joys and challenges of fathering a toddler and learning to balance family duties with work in a male-dominated Trades Industry.

      By Heidi Tai
      Multiple devices showing screenshots of the KCC One app.

      Help Build a Life-Changing Library You Can Trust  

      Formed in 1903, Katoomba Christian Convention (KCC) has been bringing Christians together under God’s word for over 120 years. Our passion is to see our nation transformed by Jesus Christ through the powerful preaching of the Bible.  

      KCC serves the church by hosting events and conventions that: 

      • Gather Christians from across generations and denominations; 
      • Call Christians to personal holiness through Biblical, Christ-exalting preaching; and 
      • Transform Christians into the likeness of Jesus Christ.

      “I found all of the talks quite helpful & was buzzing when I came home. Members of my family were convicted over not reading the Bible & are now trying to implement quiet times with the Lord.”

      Katoomba Easter Convention, 2024 Attendee

      “It made me recommit my life to God. Being around my brothers and sisters in Christ is so uplifting it shows that no matter how alone in my faith I feel I am not, and there are so many people that share my beliefs.”

      KYCK Youth Conference, 2024 Attendee

      While thousands of delegates benefit from KCC preaching events each year, there are many Christians who are hungry for God’s word but unable to access it in the day-to-day. We think of the overseas missionaries missing their home church, Christians in rural areas, the persecuted, new parents craving quiet times, teenagers with unbelieving parents, families with health issues, financial strain or disability—all members of the body Christ who could be blessed by digital access.  

      KCC One is KCC’s mobile app, custom-built and developed to allow the ministry of KCC to be accessible anywhere, at any time. No matter where you are, you can use the app to access 3,000 sermons and resources in video, audio and text formats.  

      This June, we are asking for your help to build a life-changing library. We need your help to keep the work going, and to make the app experience the best it can be, so it can continue serving, encouraging and strengthening all who use it. 

      What does your gift help build? 

      • Brand-new content to grow a library you can trust: Your gift will build capacity for KCC to create brand-new content for the library that you can trust, and to continue making our archive of event talks available on the app – both in our wonderful free library, as well as through our low-cost subscription option (KCC+). 
      • Brand-new features: We’ve got some wonderful new features in mind, inspired by your feedback, that we’d love to bring to life with a bit more financial backing.  
      • Cover important back-end costs: Your gift will also help to cover those not-so-exciting backend costs like media hosting for all our content, keeping up with Apple and Google requirements for development, and having the right team to consistently produce the resources you can count on to enrich, challenge and encourage you in your everyday walk with God. 

      As the end of the tax year approaches, we would love if you could consider a tax-deductible gift, one-off or monthly, to the KCC App Library Fund. 

      Give today: https://kcc.org.au/support-us/donate

      This June, we are asking for your help to build a life-changing library you can trust.

      By Heidi Tai

      5,000+ Youth Meet Their Creator God at KYCK 

      Over three weekends, more than 5,000 teenagers and youth leaders attended the KYCK conference in Katoomba. Founded in 1993, KYCK is a Bible preaching event aimed at inspiring high schoolers to live for Jesus alone. Each year, delegates are invited to hear and respond to God’s word through powerful Bible talks, uplifting worship in song, inspiring testimonies, and fun youth-appropriate activities.  

      Over the years, KYCK has become a treasured space for teenagers to explore and deepen their faith with like-minded company. Each year, teenagers travel far and wide for fellowship in Katoomba. We are so encouraged that in 2024, we had groups join us from the ACT, Northern Territory and Queensland!  

      This year, guest speakers Alan Au, Brett Hookham, Sam Low, and Andy Stevenson opened Genesis to introduce youth to their Creator—a powerful and loving God who was there from the very beginning. Talk topics touched on the creation story, the supremacy of Jesus, humanity’s identity and purpose. Special guests Polly Butterworth and Patricia Weerakoon also joined the platform to share what it means for humanity to be created in the ‘Image of God’ and ‘Male and Female’.  

      “I loved the relevance of the talks, the confidence of speakers, the unashamed focus on the beauty of the way God has made us, and the way we were encouraged to fix our eyes on Jesus throughout it all. There are big parts of Genesis 1-3 that many conferences today would brush over, but I am so thankful to KYCK for addressing them head on with such conviction and compassion.”

      – KYCK 2 Leader 

      We praise God that from hearing His word preached, 68 teenagers became a Christian for the first time, 356 recommitted their lives to him, and 49 left the conference wanting to learn more.  

      “KYCK made me recommit my life to God. Being around my brothers and sisters in Christ is so uplifting, it shows that no matter how alone in my faith I feel, I am not, and there’s so many people that share my beliefs.”

      – KYCK 3 First Timer Youth 

      “My favourite thing about KYCK 24, as always, is hearing the gospel preached and seeing young lives turning to him! 6 of ours responded! And seeing them move forward in their discipleship!

      – KYCK 3 Leader 

      For teenagers who are already following Jesus, KYCK gives them an opportunity to access speakers beyond their church network—to hear old truths with fresh perspectives. For many, it also serves as a powerful reminder that they are not alone in their faith, and that their beliefs are shared by thousands across Australia. This encouragement is especially important for teenagers in smaller youth groups, isolated rural areas, or who face opposition for their faith at home or school. 

      It was just amazing experience to be in a room with so many teen Christians and be able to worship together.

      – KYCK 1 Youth

      KYCK is such an encouragement to our young people and leaders. It’s great to see many of God’s people worshipping together.

      – KYCK 1 Leader 

      “KYCK is the youth’s pinnacle event of the year to fellowship around God’s Word, other youth and singing.”

      – KYCK 3 Youth Leader 

      Hosted as a hybrid event, youth groups can choose to experience KYCK in-person at StayKCC in the Blue Mountains, or KYCK Online; a high-quality livestream promising a ‘front row’ seat from the convenience of a living room or church hall. Delegates who joined KYCK in-person could take part in optional fellowship activities including the ‘KYCK On’ Soccer Cup where youth groups Christ Church Gladesville and Nowra Baptist Church took home the crown; and the Saturday Night BBQ where over $6,100 was raised to support Scripture teachers.  

      Early Bird tickets are still available for KYCK this September!  

      KYCK will return for a fourth weekend on the 27-29 September in Katoomba. KYCK 4 Early Bird tickets are still available until 30 June AEST from our website: https://www.kyck.org.au/  

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      5,000+ youth and leaders met their Creator in the book of Genesis at KYCK conference.

      By Heidi Tai

      Feeling Stuck in Your Faith? Overcome Complacency at OneLove 

      Are you feeling stuck in your faith?  

      Does what you know about God no longer match how you feel about Him?  

      Have the pressures of everyday life caused you to push God and spiritual disciplines to the sidelines? 

      Our lives are shaped by routine – from workplaces to home life, from fitness classes to even church services. With this, the beauty of the gospel risks becoming over-familiar, leading to complacency and indifference. Despite our best efforts to reignite the passion we once had, time and time again we find ourselves slipping back into our schedules, where our faith becomes just another part of our daily lives. I wonder if you know this cycle well? 

      To help women address this topic, OneLove women’s conference will be exploring the theme, “Overcoming Complacency: How the Joy of the Father Can Reignite Your Devotion”. Guest speaker Blair Linne will open the scriptures to help women pause, reflect, and rediscover the sheer joy of being known and loved by the Father.  

      Blair Linne is the author of Finding My Father: How The Gospel Heals The Pain of Fatherlessness. She is a Bible teacher, actress, spoken word artist, and the creator of the podcast GLO with The Gospel Coalition. Blair has toured globally and is known as one of the originators of the Christian Spoken Word genre. Proclaiming the gospel of Jesus Christ through speaking and spoken word is her passion. She lives in Portland with her husband Shai Linne and their three children. 

      Along with powerful preaching, OneLove will inspire you to overcome complacency through worship songs and shared stories. Our prayer is that you’ll leave the conference with a fresh view of what it means to be a child of God and how it shapes everything you do.  

      Join us at OneLove this August!

      OneLove women’s conference will return on Saturday 24th August at the Hillsong Convention Centre. Tickets are now available from our website: https://onelovewomen.com/register/   

      Discounted tickets are also available for full-time students, interstate and regional delegates. More information available from our website: https://onelovewomen.com/register/#prices   

      OneLove women’s conference will be exploring the theme, “Overcoming Complacency: How the Joy of the Father Can Reignite Your Devotion”.

      By Heidi Tai

      “Your Front Facing Camera is Lying to You” by Matt Sparks  

      In this talk from Katoomba Easter Convention 2024, Matt Sparks empowers us to resist worldliness with a cultural commentary of our world’s call to expressive individualism of forging and finding your identity on a journey of self-actualisation. 

      Matt helps us to see that while slogans such as “you do you” and “be true to yourself” are popular life scripts for our generation, living by these mottos will put you in opposition to God’s calling for us to be formed into the image of Christ.  
       
      This talk will help listeners grow in discernment of our culture’s emphasis on forging an identity of feelings, ‘authentic’ living and sexual expression, while encouraging us to see how worldliness may have creeped into our personal values and world views.  

      Key quote: 

      “The irony of modern-day identity formation is it says, “I can be whoever I want to be and do whatever I want to do”, and at the same time it will demand that society validate their chosen identity.” 

      Easter Convention 2024 Talks Now Available on KCC+ 

      At Katoomba Easter Convention (KEC) this year, over 2,300 delegates joined to be empowered in their faith and to consider how they can conquer worldliness. Through sermons, topicals and inspiring testimonies, delegates were encouraged to remain faithful to God despite the attractiveness of secularism and opposition to Christianity in the Western world.   
        
      Program highlights included expository talks by John North, Tim Blencowe and Matt SparksRachel Ciano’s biographical talks of the lives of Richard Baxter and Gladys Aylward, and livecross interviews with Paul Tripp and Glen Scrivener.   

      All 11 talks are now exclusively available on the app for all our KCC+ subscriber family. Subscribe now from only $4.99/month to get instant access to these talks and much more!  

      Matt Sparks empowers us to resist worldliness with a cultural commentary of our world’s call to expressive individualism and self-actualisation. 

      By Heidi Tai

      Conquering Worldliness: KEC24 Talks Now on KCC+  

      At Katoomba Easter Convention (KEC) this year, over 2,300 delegates joined to be empowered in their faith and to consider how they can conquer worldliness. Through sermons, topicals and inspiring testimonies, delegates were encouraged to remain faithful to God despite the attractiveness of secularism and opposition to Christianity in the Western world.  
       
      Program highlights included expository talks by John North, Tim Blencowe and Matt Sparks; Rachel Ciano’s biographical talks of the lives of Richard Baxter and Gladys Aylward, and livecross interviews with Paul Tripp and Glen Scrivener.  

      All 11 talks are now exclusively available on the app for all our KCC+ subscriber family. Subscribe now from only $4.99/month to get instant access to these talks and much more! 

      “I found KEC24 to be one of the best so far, as the teaching was really practical. It had good biblical content but was practical in giving encouragement of how to live the Christian life in our current challenging secular times.” – Anne, KEC 24 Delegate 

      The Pull of Being Remembered in This World 

      Rachel Ciano shares with us the inspirational stories of Richard Baxter and Gladys Aylward; stories of Christian faith lived out against the world. 

      A Biblical Worldview of Worldliness 

      In this 4-part series, John North leads us in shaping up a biblical view of worldliness: what the Bible says it is, how it affects us, and how God wants us to engage with the world we live in. 

      Jesus Christ, Our Greater Treasure 

      Enjoy this 4-part short talk series from Tim Blencowe reminding us from four ‘landmark’ texts for the Christian life, how Jesus is our greater treasure. 

      A Beautiful Resistance 

      These three evening talks from Matt Sparks guide us through three areas of life where we may face the battle against worldliness in the 21st century. 

      While we live in a prosperous country filled with beautiful treasures and alternative wisdoms, it is our hope that these talks will give you a renewed confidence in God, the greatest treasure and wisdom for all of life. Join the KCC+ family to get instant access!  

      11 talks from Katoomba Easter Convention 2024 are now available on the KCC+ app.

      By Heidi Tai

      Serving God as a Missionary Mother and Grandmother: Beth 

      Ahead of Mother’s Day (Sunday 12 May), we will be sharing stories of Christian mothers and what this day means for them. Whether Mother’s Day brings feelings of joy, grief or a mix of both, we hope that this series can be a celebration of all the mother figures that God has blessed us with.   

      In this interview, Beth shares the unique joys and challenges of raising three daughters as a missionary mother in Papua New Guinea. Drawing from decades of experience as a mother and grandmother, she shares a wealth of wisdom on how we can love, teach and discipline children with gospel hope. Finally, Beth shares how grandmothers can continue serving the gospel in their families and local churches, and the value that young mums can draw from experienced older mothers who have “struggled and survived”. We hope you are encouraged by her story!

      Photo: Beth Calderwood
      1. Please introduce yourself! 

      Hello. My name is Beth Calderwood and I have been married to Glenn for 42 years. We have three daughters, two son-in-laws, and eight grandchildren ranging in age from 10 years down to 2 years. I enjoy several hobbies including gardening, crochet, embroidery, sewing, reading, and have recently taken up tennis after decades away from the game. Glenn and I are involved in All Saints ANeW church in New Lambton, Newcastle. 

      1. Your family served as missionaries in Papua New Guinea for over 20 years. What are some unique joys and challenges that missionary mothers face? 

      We travelled to Papua New Guinea (P.N.G) in March 1989 and lived there until December 2013 when we were forced to leave because of threats to Glenn’s life. For five more years, we travelled to P.N.G. for short stints to continue teaching and discipling believers.  

      Motherhood itself has many challenges, and moving to a country with a very different culture certainly increases the challenges! We faced a steep learning curve on many fronts. Being hours away from health facilities and other English speakers left us feeling quite isolated. 

      Our eldest daughter was in Year 1, so we were both thrust into the unknown of doing distance education in the first week of our arrival. I felt at times that I was neglecting our 3-year-old and 6-month-old baby as I juggled all that had to be done. Household tasks were slower without the conveniences we were used to. It was a bit like stepping back into a lifestyle of a previous generation; bread had to be baked each day, water hand-pumped into a header tank for showers, water heated in a copper which was bucketed into the twin-tub washing machine, and kerosene lamps for light at night. The local people came to the house most days for various medical help, which I was able to give having trained as a nurse after leaving school. 

      I struggled considerably. For the first two or three years it felt a bit like being in a black hole with so much to do and learn. Slowly, as I adjusted, the outlook became brighter. Looking back over our years of ministry in P.N.G., Glenn and I are so thankful for God’s grace and enablement to do what he gave us to do – things that we could never have imagined we would be able to go through or be able to do. We did go through many dangers, toils and snares, and God did lead us and keep us. 

      One of the main joys as a mother was to be able to spend so much time with our daughters doing home schooling, spending time reading together, cooking, and teaching them various hand crafts. They were always part of what we were doing, we were together as a family in P.N.G. We are so thankful that God brought each one to Himself, and they are seeking to live for Him in their lives. 

      Later in our time there I was able to teach literacy to the women and children in the church, and help them to memorise Bible verses, which I really enjoyed. It was a great way to get to know them more and help them as mothers. 

      1. How has knowing God the Father influenced the way you parented your own children? 

      I remember some time ago coming to the realisation that we are so much like our children in our relationship with God. They often want their own way and think their parents aren’t being loving when they don’t give them what they want, not understanding that correction and boundaries are for their good to keep them from the danger and harm of their own sinful hearts. We forget that God is our faithful, wise, loving, compassionate Father, who cares deeply for us, protecting us from our sinfulness, always doing what is for our good. 

      Our kids are like a window into our own hearts and foolish ways of thinking. We really need to keep remembering God’s loving grace given to us each day so that we might be grateful to Him for dealing in kindness with us, and that we might plead with Him to enable us to learn to deal likewise with our children. It’s very easy to relate out of selfishness to our children when they need correction, wanting them to stop making our lives more difficult. 

      Our children need what we need. Having been brought to God through the life, death and resurrection of Jesus we desperately need His ongoing work of grace to change us to be more like Him, to no longer live for self but for Him who died on our behalf.  

      When we fail, we have a great God whose compassions never fail, they are new every morning, He understands we are frail. After an exhausting day of feeling like all you have done is deal with squabbles and such, you can teach your children the same thing – God continues to be compassionate to us, He continues to understand our frailties and deals graciously with us each day. God is with us and forgives us and helps us again and again. We can keep giving our children this gospel hope. 

      1. How has God used you in your role as a grandmother? How can grandparents continue serving their family for God’s glory? 

      Praying for your children and grandchildren is so important. God is the only one who can open blind eyes and change hearts, and draw our children and grandchildren to Himself, and He’s the only one who can continue to open eyes and keep changing hearts and changing lives. 

      Practical help can be appreciated, especially when the children are little, when young mums can often feel overwhelmed with the physical demands on them and are learning all that it means to be a mother. Helping with piled up washing or dishes, making a meal, babysitting, an encouraging word and even just being there with a big hug when discouragement sets in and tears are flowing, along with being available and willing to help with advice on all kinds of things. Learning for parents and grandparents is life-long, as children progress from one stage to another. 

      It’s good to keep in mind that there are often young mums in our churches who want to be “adopted” by a grandparent, wanting to draw on your experience in parenting, and appreciate having company and help, especially if they live some distance away from their own parents. 

      1. What is one piece of advice that you would give to new mothers this Mother’s Day? 

      Having talked with young mums over a number of years, I actually have two pieces of advice that I hope will be helpful. 

      The first is that your children are not a hindrance to your ministry. Your children are your ministry. Of course, the same is true for those who aren’t involved in formal ministry. It’s important to take your parenting seriously. You are in the enviable position of discipling your children in knowing the God who created them, of having the opportunity of speaking with them when you’re sitting at home, when you’re walking along the road, when you lie down and when you get up. It doesn’t mean that you are not involved in other ministry, but if you have children then they are the primary ministry that God has given you. They are a blessing from him. 

      My second piece of advice is to seek out those who are older and have wisdom to pass on about parenting. Those who have had years of failing and learning and have been humbly growing in dependence on God as they parented their own children can be your best helpers. Rather than seeking advice from your peers, who are also in the middle of the struggle, listen to those who have gone through the struggle and have survived, gaining wisdom along the way. 

      Beth opens up about the joys and challenges of Missionary Mothers and shares how we can love, teach and discipline children with gospel hope.

      By Heidi Tai
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